Dating Rules For Men

You are a guy who is always in a serious relationship. You are a guy who hasn't dated in years. Or maybe you're a guy who has never been successful with women. Whatever your situation, there are some common dating rules to follow when venturing into the dating jungle. These conventions even the playing field, preparing you for success while protected your emotions. Women are trained from day one in the art of dating warfare. They have a physical and emotional arsenal that you may never hope to match. But you won't be outgunned if you properly prepare for the battle.

1. Look your best. Get some decent clothes and shoes. Women always look at your shoes, even if you last checked your Nikes in 1996. Get clothes that fit you, suit you and are contemporary. Don't just buy one outfit, sort out your entire wardrobe. Buy a nice tailored suit, there is no excuse not to. If you can't take care of yourself, how are you going to take care of her?
2. Sort out your hygiene and styling. Go down to the barbers and clean up your hair, getting it styled if possible. If you don't have much hair, still get down to the salon, maybe get your head shaved. Or just get a regular shave, a professional shave will leave your face looking and feeling great. Then it is off to the shops with you for good quality cologne and a grooming kit. Men are so often criticized for smelling bad. Get into a regular showering routine so you will always smell fresh and clean. Women appreciate it.
3. Sort out your job if you have one. Women want a man who has some ambition in life. Coasting along as a skateboard instructor is generally not going to win you a real catch (though I'd give it a go, I love skateboarding). Any job is better than none, but knuckle down and sort out some direction in your life. If possible try and look like you have something of a career. If you have a manual job, at least have some plans to work for yourself, and if you already do, then you are on the right track. But know what you are about work wise and have some idea of your future plans because women will ask questions about your prospects. Even if they pretend it isn't important, it is.
4. Be in the know. Make sure you are up to date with current affairs, watch the news and read quality papers. Women do not appreciate stupidity, and laziness is no excuse for sounding dumb. Current affairs are important in showing you know all about the world we live in. If you travel a lot then this will help tremendously. If you don't, make plans to travel and tell her about it. Proving you are willing and able to plan vacations is essential in the grand scheme of things.
5. Do not extol the virtues of drinking in the bar 5 nights a week. This will never win any fair princess's heart. If you spend all your time boozing with the boys, it's time to take a step back and pick up some more productive habits. Taking your lady for a drink is fine, especially if you take her to get cocktails at a nice lounge, but give them the impression that you live there will get you absolutely nowhere fast.
6. Keep your super fan status in check. If you love your sports and enjoying watch the game with your buddies, fine. If sport is a religion and you have your favorite player's number tattooed on your back, you may have a problem. If you are serious about dating, rattling off baseball stats, ranting about unfair umpires and constantly check the score will put them off in record time. To the uninitiated, sports are completely boring, and many women interpret the obsession as a total lack of thought, creativity or inspiration. Millions of girls love sports too, and rooting for the same team is great, but don't make your passion into a one-sided one.
9. Never expect sex on a first date. If all you are after is sex, you have come to the wrong place for reading material. If you are looking for the girl of your dreams, there is nothing sexier than a patient man. You are easily capable of waiting for the right woman.
10. Read up on manners, courtesy and chivalry. A woman likes being treated with respect. Lose the coarse language, the swear words, the rudeness and the laziness. Know how to eat in a top restaurant. Know about fashion, jewelry and flowers. Know how to hold a door open for a woman, let her go first and help her with her seat. Listen to what she says but have opinions of your own too. Show her respect and manners at every step and you'll be on the right path.
11. Start listening and stop talking. Keep your date interested but don't turn into a one-man circus. She will bore of you quickly because she wants to talk about herself too. Listen to things she tells you about her and remember them. Women love to chat so you need to learn to listen to her. Remembering things she told you will impress her even more.
12. Give up smoking. Now.
13. Learn to dance even if you have two left feet. Women love to dance and it puts you two in close contact. It is also romantic and sexy. You can be the world's worst dancer, I don't care. But if you stay seated when she is on that dance floor you may as well not exist. Try joining salsa and ballroom classes. You don't need to be Travolta but you should have an idea of the basics of rhythm. Get started today.

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Dating Rules For Woman

In another dating article on this site, you will find a general set of rules than men should follow when dating. In the same way, women have some general rules that they should contend with when entering the dating jungle. Now I know everyone is different, so don't take things too seriously here. There has been some controversy over some literature published in the USA that lays out in detail the rules a woman should follow to get her guy (or gal). Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider's 1995 bestseller "The Rules," explains how women should play hard if they want to get their guy. I can understand why some groups would be hostile about this, but the fact is that when we grow up, there are a predefined set of dating rules. What happens is that we forget most of them after the age of 21, and then realize we need to relearn them.
I wish there weren't any general rules, but courtship is a ritual. There are things that we make happen that excite, stimulate, create interest and confound. Dating is a long test of compatibility. Are we perfectly matched? If we just threw ourselves together, then the chances of long term happiness might be compromised. And yet previous generations managed to succeed on a far less complex courtship criteria list. Many arranged marriages work all too interestingly.
In every society there are a predefined set of social rules we follow, from the way and timing of eating to the way we behave in public. The issue here is that when women date, there are some things that can help them be more successful. If we accept that dating is a game, then there are rules to that game. There are winners and losers. If you know the rules in advance, it gives you a head start. If men know the rules by which you are playing, you may change the rules to suit the situation to keep the man guessing. Men love a challenge, so feel free to adapt rules and add them as you feel inclined.
You can separate rules out into two parts, dating and online dating. Both areas have distinct rules that a woman should follow for dating success.
General Dating Rules

• Always look great, whatever your income. Gorgeous hair and some lipstick with rags will still turn his head. You have the advantage. You are the woman. Look your best as you could meet a potential Mr. Right anywhere at any time.
• Never reveal information you don't have to. An enigmatic woman drives men wild.
• Keep dates brief, but your men interested. Less is always more.
• Try and stay in shape and involve some fitness regime at a gym. However much you hate it, your Mr. Right loves your body as much as your mind.
• Let your man pay. If he is interested, he is interested enough to ensure you eat well and get home safely in a cab.
• Ensure you receive flowers. If he doesn't know what a florist is, dump him.
• Never ever sleep with a guy until he has fallen for you. Sex early in your dating game plan will ruin everything.
• Always keep a guy waiting and never turn up early. It is a lady's perogative.
• Never be available when he wants you to be. Never be at the end of a phone when he calls and always let him leave a message or two first before replying.
• If he is available Tuesday, you are available Thursday.
• Weekend shopping trips with girlfriends are sacred and not available for dates.
• Keep your man standing on quicksand by shifting landmarks and goalposts constantly.
• Ensure you are a good kisser. Men will walk away if you cannot kiss. Practice on a mirror if you have to.
• Never ever talk about previous boyfriends, particularly their prowess in the bedroom. Your ex-boyfriends are your business only.
• Never assume anything about your date until you choose to know him better. You cannot always tell by looking.
• If any man shows the slightest signs of possessiveness or insecurity, run like the wind. Life is too short for boys.
• If his shoes or hygiene are a disgrace, dump him.
• Never talk too much about your father and how your date measures up in comparison.
• Never ever come across as too available or too desperate. He will run a mile. He is the one doing the chasing.
• If the guy in the corner is gorgeous, go get him and create the need in him for you. Never wait for men to come to you because you may watch him leave with someone else.
• You may well have all the bodily functions of a man, just try not to demonstrate them early on.
• If you want a child, don't mention it on the first few dates.
• Never ever criticize his mother unless you want to remain single.

Online Dating Rules

• Always let them come to you, don't chase them via email.
• Block anyone who annoys you instantly.
• Post the best and most vampish photo you can find.
• Don't reply to instant messages with clever opening lines.
• Remain aloof and let yourself be chased.
• Always reply to emails at least 3 days after receipt.
• Never provide your real email or phone details.
• Always date safely and protect yourself at every turn.
• Make sure your login name is stunning and sexy, as well as enigmatic.
• Do not login for hours on end. Short, rapid visits are best.
• Do not assume the person you are talking to is destitute or sad.
• Never ever reply to emails on weekends. Wait until a weekday.
• Never state how good your sexual performance is in your profile.
• If you don't want to date married men, spell it out in your profile.
• A man who doesn't reply to your email within 3 days should be ignored.
• Make sure your humor levels come across in text.
• Do not chat to hundreds of men at once. The delay in replying is a dead giveaway and your Mr. Right will be off.
• Don't even think about misrepresenting your size or description. They will find out.
• Come across as cool and sophisticated for best results

Ladies, always remember that you are a sexy, desirable woman and the world is your oyster. Always let men do the chasing and always allow yourself to be the chooser. Always stay safe and never risk yourself for the sake of attending a date. Always use a safe dating Website.

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Love Tips for a long lasting Relationship

An enduring love relationship is built with passion and care, with lots of respect and forgiveness for each other. There are no miracles and no fairy tales in real life love relationships.


Here are some love tips on how to keep the love fire sparking romantically in your daily life:
1. Arrange romantic plans for the weekends such as: a quiet candle light dinner on Friday evening, catching up a romantic movie together, cycling around the country side or having a nice picnic in the park under the big oak tree.

2. Try to switch off your mobiles so that you will not be distracted by any other stuff especially those from your work place.

3. Try to secure as much time as possible having both of you alone, send your kids to their favorite recreation centre during school holidays or weekends.

4. Catching up an old classic sentimental movie at home, which both of you used to be fond of, sharing those happy memories of yours with each other.

5. Share jokes with your partner and laugh out together. Add humor to your life.

6. Switch roles during weekends, husbands get to cook and wash for their wives while the wives gets to do some of the stuffs which their husbands used to do during the weekends such as washing the cars and taking the dogs for a walk in the park.

7. Listen to your favorite music together, sharing some of the stories which you can recall happening to your children which were hilarious and laugh together.

8. Pick up a dancing class together such as ball-room dancing or cha-cha. You will soon rediscover the lost love in each other eyes while practicing along with the rhythm of the song played.

9. Surprise him / her with new ideas such as: he can try to learn to "bake" her favorite cake, while she can get him something which he has been longing for, such as unique collections of toy cars. Tiny gestures like these are important for they show how much you care for your other spouse.

10. Send her / him love cards every other day with kind loving words full of appreciation and passion. You do not need to wait for his/her birthday or wedding anniversary to send special cards or gifts. Express your love

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Love Tips! (For Men)

Men in relationships must employ valid tips for love, if they want to make the right impression. All men in relationships want to do their level best to please the lady. When you feel dry with no motivation, it is vital for you to look for love tips that will enable you keep the relationship not just alive but healthy and well. There are very many things that you as a man can do to make your woman love you even more. The first place to begin is by knowing them completely. You will get to know your lady fully by listening to them. Get to judge what they like and what they dislike. Sometimes, women talk too much and it is hard to know what their true character is. However, you need to look at the things they like eating, wearing, reading, playing and many others. You need to know her inside and out; this is the key to keeping them satisfied. The other tip is to appreciate them. Ladies like to be recognized and complimented. A simple compliment can really work magic for you. Do not falsely compliment them; make sure you are as sincere as you can be.

Men in relationships should constantly surprise their women. Do not be the kind of guy who never impresses or who never goes out of his way to do something different. Sometimes, you feel like you are being forced to do things and this should not be the case. If you are unhappy about things, it is better to confront the problem. Many times, men are in relationships where they are not in love. There are very many reasons why men in relationships choose to remain there. Many will be in love while others will be trapped. If the foundation of your relationship is wrong, there is no reason for mending the cracks because it is going to crumble. Be real to yourself and settle in relationships that have value. When you are with your lady, it is vital for you not to rush anything. Men tend to be rough but, in the presence of your woman, you need to be a gentle man who is not concerned about his interests but those of his woman. Take things slow, just the way she likes it. This way, you will discover your spouse or partner will be more open and submissive to you.




Men in relationships need to fulfill their role of providing for the family. A woman is happy to see a man who works hard for the betterment of the family. This way, as a man, your wife will get to appreciate and value you more. Relationships are about love and appreciating the roles you play. Think of new things to do when it is a special occasion. Better yet, make up occasions and have her spend time with you. When you get to understand each other, you will realize that your relationships will flow naturally, just like a stream. If you have a way with words, you can write a few lines to express your love. When it comes to marriage and relationships, words of love are enough. Learning your spouse will continue and as long as you make an effort, you will win in this game of love.

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Love Tips (Tempt him with elegant)

The affair tempted-tempted this has been since long ago. Not only the man that could carry him out, all gender then occasionally without realised carried him out unintentionally. Moreover by the technological allowance like the cellular phone and the internet, flirting so increasingly was easy and pleasant.

Not his time still did flirting by doing stupid matters to look for attention, as dropping the book or the handkerchief. That has been old! To get attention the he, you were enough to do several matters without must blackmail sweat. Any that?

Love Tips (Eye Contact)
Do eyes contact with the person who was aimed at by you. Continued to gaze at him for more than 3 seconds with the friendly and friendly view, afterwards the look in a vew manner. Why must be rather old? Because the he needed time to learn that you were tempting him

Love Tips (play your finger!)
Our fingertips had the high sensitivity. Fingertips worked like antennae that at once sent the signal to the brain. With the touch just a few, if both of them were chemistry, the sensation that was felt like the electricity current. So if you were attracted by someone, tried to be able to touch or shake the hand of the hands.

Love Tips (Crossed foot )
Foot was one of the body parts that was filled the sensitive artery. Foot was directly in contact with the brain and the centre of our genitals. The Anda position sat revealed the feeling, the attitude, and the atmosphere of your heart. Crossed foot and shook shoes from toes was one of the techniques flirting that was most potent to be practised.

Love Tips (Follow His/her Body Language)
Follow the movement of his body. When he turned to right and to left, tried to join him,carried out the same movement. During him realise that you did the same thing, he will feel that the two of you connect and tune in. If the he indeed was interested, he will definitely smile saw your behaviour.

Love Tips (Lip Service)
Threw the smile was the most effective method to do flirting. This was also acknowledged by the expert in psychology and the expert body language, that said that during most important that could make you be seen attractive was the friendly smile. Give your best smile. If the he gave the signal, there were not mistakenly you first that said, “Hi”. And if indeed he implied the characteristics were open, asked him to chat that was very light previously.

Focus!!
When chatting with the he, gave attention with gaze at direct to his eyes when he spoke. Listen to each sentence that slid from his lip. Smiled and laughed when he joked, that indicated you indeed attention in what was discussed. But remembered, was yourself personally, had a natural attitude, and the way it is.

Flirting was the problem of the attitude. That was best was when you felt the self-confidence and not frightened of facing the risk. Not there is mistakenly tempted for the happiness, from you knew his limitations. Apart from the technique flirting, there were also several matters that might not be done by you during flirting, including laughing too hard so as to invite attention of many people, don't sit between many of his certain people was more interesting/good-looking from you because that could solve the concentration the he to you, and that most important was to have to not be frightened of might not fail as well as install the target anything. Flirting Is so fun, so enjoyed then!

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10 Tips to make girl fell in love

Tips the love far more was difficult compared to SEO or design. The love was blind so as to have to grope. The love was most beautiful words that had been said. And the love only that to early a warfare. Not each guy in the world could get the love from the girl. Because of the girl that was most important decisive whether you deserved to become the guy ideal or not. Several matters that made you failed to get him

Along with this, there were 10 tricks made the girls Fell in  love with you, who were tested by his capability. This trick was summarised from various sources:

1.Honest and Gentle

Show that you the honest man, polite, at the same time charming. Often need not give the reason for one mistake, wore neat clothes and spoke words were good to be heard. When you could be seen like that, could be confirmed he will want close to you to continue.

2.Often did not consider

One of the bad habits the man was considered physical the woman. In fact everyone knew, nobody’s perfect. For him felt comfort during was close to you. One of them, by receiving himself the way it is, was not compared to the other girl, moreover with the former girlfriend you.

3.Not possessive

You might liked him, not frightened of losing him. But did not mean you must curb or tie him. Give him room to move. Don't too much often “show” your self. Let him guessed, here, what are you doing and with who you.could cultivate yearning in himself.

4.Willing

Show you was interested and enthusiastic heard he said. Show also you were prepared to hear the complaint kesah and was sharing him. Don't forget to give the response smart toned the upper humour related-he said. Give the alternative to the solution on the problem that was dealt with by him, without being impressed teached.

5.Many Smiles

The smile was one of the effective weapons in spreading the attraction. The expert's words, the smile was the reflection himself the person who always thought positive.there were not mistakenly you a little innocent to him. Will be better when And You Too could make him smile. With joke-joke fresh, for example

6.Be the best

To become that was best, did not mean you must do matters apart from the range. Be the best you can be then. One of his methods, by being ready to accompany him dikala sad and happy

7.Not to Forced

Please to keep the wish to show the love. You must be rather patient. Might you phone him, but don't too much often. Try to get also to not too much often wheedled. Try to get to only discussed the important matter every time call by phone.

8.Little indifferent

This one was the other form from the point 7. Although the girl knew true you liked him, but tried to not serve whether the wish. Indifferent temples if you were being nearby .

9.Let Him guessed

The girl generally is fond of something that was mysterious, right. So why many girls who became the writer of stories  the adventure and the mystery, like Agatha Christie or Enid Blyton. Make him like that. His method? Don't immediately opened himself up. Tell very few about yourself. This will make him more curious and not fast bored. Let his curious feeling continue to grow. In this way, he will try to know you more and more.

10.Dont be to Close

Often was male that only could become the friend of the girl who was liked by him. One of his reasons because of the girl felt their relations have been too close, through to more was glad being friends then. Nah, when you really liked a girl, better should not be too close first. .

GOOD LUCK!!!

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